I used to drink just because it was a weekend, I had money for cheap booze, and could walk a short distance to get it. Now I only drink when I actually want to, and probably won’t even drink at karaoke tonight even though that's “what you do” at karaoke
Now that I’m pushing forty I’ve noticed a lot of my friends and associates suddenly getting sober. More power to them but it’s just not for me. When I do a searching moral inventory of what sparks joy in my life, I always come back to having a drink (or three) after a long day or a job well done. You won’t regret skipping dessert but not ordering a glass of wine at dinner is too much to ask.
obviously go at your own pace but seemingly i am a really largely sized man so maybe don’t go too hard core. but being buzzed for part of the night and then enjoying the rest of the night AND BEING ABLE TO DRIVE HOME! (granted i used to DD but those days are over for the time being)
I got him at a particularly difficult point in my life and I’ve had him for 6.5 years now wow!!! He’s always been big, just much larger dimensions than a normal cat as well as being a little chubby lol. He’s a sweetie pie and is finally coming around to his little sister 💛