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I get a weird feeling when someone says they’re “obsessed” with someone. I feel like it opens up the door to someone mistreating you because they know you’ll let it slide because you can’t live without them. Yes you can love someone with everything, but don’t lose who you are in the name of keeping your obsession happy. Speak up when things aren’t right. If they moving funny, man shit, if a joke goes too far, address it immediately and speak your truth. I believe words have power and obsessed is just something I‘m not willing to use all willy nilly.
May 24, 2025
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I can be nice to myself, sure. I can’t be obsessed with myself, or at least, it’s very affirming to have someone who sees you just as deeply as you see yourself and turn out to be obsessed with the result of the whole of you, including the parts that you can’t perceive on your own.
May 29, 2024
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If you love someone or something, you need to act LOVING. If you aren’t consistently loving in relationships at best they’ll go stale, at worst there will be mistreatment. That includes the relationship with yourself.
Most importantly, if someone says they love you but treat you like garbage, they don’t. Be loving to yourself and leave.
Incorporating this frame of mind into your thoughts and actions is life changing.
Jul 17, 2024
love people regardless of what they are to you; friend, lover, spouse. i feel that these labels are often functions of transaction and possession. love people as you should in the forms it takes naturally. let them be and let them be with you. know that you own nothing but your heart that loves them
May 13, 2025
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Don’t be that person. Mf got a banana and a Celsius, something is going down and they need to make a quick exit. You got mad vegetables anyway, let the cashier breathe a little before they struggle to remember how to ring up them green onions you copping.
Mar 19, 2025
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I have no context at all but I love it. Feels like I’m missing out but that’s alright it’s just good to hear somebody having a big ol belly laugh and enjoying this shit while we’re breathing.
Mar 17, 2025
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I just want to show love to the ELITE Bagel. Whoever was the freak that was like “hear me out let’s put blueberry’s in the dough”, I know they were looking at you crazy but you knew you had a hit on your hands.
Mar 3, 2025