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my dad passed last feb back in my hometown and after 2 wks i flew back to work in LA, with no family. lately the grief has been overwhelming but i have no time to rest and i’m trying my best to take care of myself like hygiene, chores, eating, exercise. even though i’m so burnt out and all i wanna do is rot for 3 days. help
May 27, 2025

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my condolences. If you’re able to find time to slow down I think it would be good to process some feelings. Grief can be very difficult & presents itself in different ways
May 27, 2025

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maybe not healthy coping but at least yr coping. (i miss my dad.)
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My dad passed earlier this year, so I’m still grieving. But the best advice I could give is to: 1. Feel your emotions. If you’re sad and want to cry about it, cry. If you’re missing them, thinking of the fun times you had together and do something in their remembrance. 2. Don’t look for comforting from people who don’t get it. Some people don’t get it until it’s happened to them. Some people will never get it. No point in explaining your feelings to them while your in the middle of grieving. 3. Just keep going. I’m sure your uncle doesn’t want you to wallow and stand in place forever. I’m sure he would be more proud to see you continue your life and be great. ā™„ļø
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i don't know what happened, but i'm sorry. i think you cope by grieving and mourning. that's what i did. i journaled and cried and howled and screamed and rolled on the floor. i did this for an entire year. and it still wasn't enough. so i reached out to them like 4 days ago lol and it gave me the closure i so desperately needed. please please please remember to be kind to yourself and take care of yourself and show up for yourself even when it's the hardest thing to do. spend time with loved ones. do the things that you love. rediscover your passions. focus on you. treat yourself like the absolute g you are. remember who you are outside of this. it's so easy to lose yourself in this process of grieving. i believe in you. you can get through this <3

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