Didn’t get everything I wanted, in fact got pretty mistreated as an over correction against babying me My mom definitely saw me as her baby and still does, but whenever we’d have a big family conflict and I’d be justifiably extremely upset and she would rightfully try to defend and comfort me, nobody would let her :/ I *do* fulfill the stereotype of being the weirdest, least traditional, most liberal/progressive, and most likely to move far from home, though! And it’s true that my parents were more relaxed about curfews and such with me, but that could be because I literally didn’t do anything like drinking or partying and they actually knew/believed that (so I *don’t* live up to being the most rebellious or experimental, that would be the second child for my family lol)
Our almost 4 yr old is sweet as pie and gentle… a sensitive little princess. She hates doing anything “wrong” and enjoys sitting calmly at the table drawing or doing crafts. Our 19 month old is pure chaos. Trying to climb the stairs when we look away for 0.5 seconds and jump off stuff. He has this sneaky grin that shows off adorable little dimples. It keeps us on our toes as parents to have very different kids and I think it evens things out maybe??
I got him at a particularly difficult point in my life and I’ve had him for 6.5 years now wow!!! He’s always been big, just much larger dimensions than a normal cat as well as being a little chubby lol. He’s a sweetie pie and is finally coming around to his little sister 💛