lessons learned in college:
1. i don’t ever need someone else to give me an orgasm when i can give myself one just fine 😘
2. i need to be in experimental queer community
3. nyc
4. the finale when mx justin vivian bond sings ‘in the end’ into the megaphone with the marching band ugh makes me sob everytime 😭
Jun 9, 2025
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on the same note with concerts: being in the pit actually sucked for me, i was more focused on not getting my hair pulled and being able to breathe than enjoying the show, and i couldn’t see anything due to the height of the stage. ended up having the best time from the sidelines
anyway, overrated: losing virginity
underrated: starting over. i’ve had to start over again a couple of times (finishing uni, quitting jobs, changing career paths, etc.), it’s been scary but exciting and worth it so far
Apr 17, 2024
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ive met a few people been to some parties and been involved in drama within the past nine-ish months i’ve been in college and these are my thoughts:
- (when it comes to people my age) everyone is the same as how they were in high school. no one’s really grown or mature, it’s just high school part two with less restrictions.
- alcohol isn’t really that cool anymore, i never liked drinking and im liking it less and less. Who i’m looking for at parties are the queers in the smoke circle….
- people who you think are cool are much more socially awkward and insecure than you think (and probably more than you!)
- you will get more queer due to abundance of exposure as compared to your red state hometown
Overall college is pretty chill and thank god for graduating high school
Apr 13, 2025
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"It's bittersweet" seems to be the only phrase I find myself saying lately... any of you guys have any recommendations for making the most of my final months of high school??
I really want to spend time and make memories together, but currently, school's very cliquey and I'm having trouble bringing the whole class together.
Feeling very "Vienna" by Billy Joel and "Ribs" by Lorde, as well as "Boys don't cry" by the Cure
Apr 21, 2024
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That's fucking funny bitch it's fucking Winnie the fucking Pooh
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fuck fourth of july
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Mar 30, 2025
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get you some app-operated light bulbs and set them to fade on instead of a noise alarm, or wake up with the sunrise.
i remember all my dreams and my circadians are finally in rhythm 🥁 no bad mood mornings for me
Jun 10, 2025
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“Knowing that you love the earth changes you, activates you to defend and protect and celebrate. But when you feel that the earth loves you in return, that feeling transforms the relationship from a one-way street into a sacred bond.”
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