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Great sense of humor
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Never stops learning, always curious and open-minded
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Doesnβt have rigid gender norms embedded in his brain
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Willing to go to therapy
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Guileless in such a way that my screwed up brain can actually believe him a little when he says Iβm attractive
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Persistently communicative, even/especially through difficulties
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Is happy to have shared interests/activities as well as separate ones
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Compassionate about my OCD, goes out of his way to make me feel safer
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Takes illness/COVID/disabilities seriously and goes the extra mile to protect others even when heβs mocked for it
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Good with finances/saving/budgets, and prioritizes frequent and generous giving to others in need
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Makes social connections more easily than I do
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and ok yes heβs hot
