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FINDING YOURSELF BY SIMPLY SPENDING MORE TIME WITH YOUR SELF

I don’t even know what friends are anymore and that’s okay, because I know I got myself before anyone else got me.

@amadcore

Jun 27, 2025

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RUPAUL IS RIGHT IF YOU DONT LOVE YOURSELF HOW IN THE HELL YOU GONNA LOVE SOMEBODY ELSE

Jun 27, 2025

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