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in those cases the bes thing to do is to ask the person. yo can ask them how will they feel your support better.
this is really personal for everybod, som people like to never talk and comeback on their own while others want u to be really present. so ask your friend, what will be the bes way for me to show u how much i support u and love u rn, no pressure ofc!
Jun 29, 2025

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some people get annoyed when you ask if they're okay too much so don't do it all rhe time obviously but its nicw to remind your friends you DO care and want to help them even if they're not going to reachout for your support
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most of the time you'll get the canned "good, and you?" but once in a while somebody will suddenly give you a very alert look, and they might be willing to share some of what they've been going through. life is hard, but very much worth living! trust me when i say that it feels good to be there for others, even if it's just you listening for a few minutes.
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Look at them and notice something that they actively chose today. Easy ones are like clothes, bags, jewlery, makeup or whatever. But you’d probably have even better luck with like if they’re holding a shopping bag or a book or a cup of coffee or the keychain on their keys. idk those are just the examples I thought of. But basically that’s something intentional, so that’s something they will have thoughts/feelings/opinions on. Ask a question or make a comment that requires them to reveal that. Like a question you would want someone in your life to ask you about something that you put energy towards, yk? Like for me I always want to talk to people about books I’ve read or that theyve read. Or when Im holding a food or drink I probably could talk about why I wanted that.
But the most important part dude. Is to gauge reaction after that. If they wanna talk more then yay. If not, you gotta let it go don’t push. It’s a them thing, not a you thing.
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