- a bag of rice from your pantry
- bundle of overdried eucalyptus
- a silk scarf, or several pairs of gently used socks
- zippo lighter
- no drip no smoke tapered candles
- assortment of edible seeds in a shaker
- take them out for oyster happy hour, your treat!
- find some relevant to them poems and memorize / recite them to their face with eye contact