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I used to have a fear of changing too much and having my life be not understood or recognizable or make others uncomfortable. Like I'd cut my hair to shoulder length and then wear my hair in a ponytail all the time so people couldn't really notice. But! Don't do that! Never let them know your next move! Keep em on their toes! Let them know that they might not know what will be walking through that door next time! Keep them guessing! Maybe buy a wig of your old hair?
Jul 11, 2025

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Maybe not a wig but definitely a bald cap. Will they recognise me when I dress up as a baby? Who knows
Jul 11, 2025
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@LADDYLILBADDIE I mean if you were bald as a baby, that is your old hair so they probably will! Two birds one stone!
Jul 12, 2025
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Wow, how did you know exactly what I needed to hear?
Jul 11, 2025
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@LADDYLILBADDIE HAHA! because it's what I still need to hear lol. Like I will not play the muppets theme if I'm driving someone somewhere even though I really want to. But I should!
Jul 12, 2025

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I am a girl who changes her hair a lot. I hadnโ€™t been that kind of girl though, but now I am. I think that mood, artistry and life itself really informs my perspective on my personal self image and perception of beauty, so Iโ€™m always looking to appear differently or uniquely, or as a somewhat different version of myself. Hair to me, is the biggest tool and canvas in how to change oneโ€™s appearance - even more so than makeup. In 2019 there was a point where I bleached literally my entire scalp and eyebrows (as a lot of people are now doing in this present day)โ€ฆ My hair was in twists, and so I looked like this character from a cartoon or anime in a majestic way. Yassified Super Saiyan! Iโ€™d still been a highschooler then, and that was the most free Iโ€™d ever felt with my image up to that point. To me, that was a real testament to the power of hair. From that point on my life became a pipeline from wigs to eventually protective hairstyles and I lived for every second of it. I still do!
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for ages i'd been terrified to do anything out of the ordinary with my appearance - middle school is a rough experience for everyone, i think, and i got the REALLY short end of the stick. but people mature, slowly start to care less about how others choose to express themselves, start to treat others as real people. and now i have friends that love my neon, glow-under-uv-light, radioactive, eye-burningly green hair ^_^ and i love it too !
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wind on scalp. nothing to hide with nothing to hide from. teaching my inner child a lesson about how fleeting things that feel momentous can be thru growth. also gender joy to the max and an a long overdue acquaintance with head shape. pretty neat!

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