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show up to a party by yourself!! leave by yourself!! go to a café, walk, adventure by yourself. you’re all you’ve got.
formerly biggest fear turned new superpower. loving it.

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Love this! It took years of traveling solo for work for me to train myself to get comfortable and enjoy being alone with myself in situations meant for couples/groups. Plus the amazing side benefit of meeting new people and making new friends...as an adult!
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Retweet as frick!!! I’ve been to lots of concerts by myself and always have so much fun :) 😎😎
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this has to be one of my biggest anxieties that i’ve been fighting for SO long. what were some things that helped you??
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@KAYWEE honestly I wish I had better advice than jumping in. The nice thing about so many of these spaces is that no one is really paying attention to you — and if you can remind yourself of that, it gets easier each time. 🫶
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!!!
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i love doing things by myself sometimes it’s actually so nice especially if you’re someone who struggles with self-love
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Doing things alone is much more normal in other countries (compared to America)!
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that’s love ♥
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The idea intimidates me but I need to give this a try
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@KROSSKAHLA its so scary until you’re doing it and you realize the world didn’t end ! trust
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@KROSSKAHLA I went to a music festival alone and so many people came up to me just to tell me they wished they came alone. People bought me drinks and someome brought me to an afterparty where I got a free pair of shoes. People love the energy.
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@KROSSKAHLA (The afterparty was sponsored by a shoe brand. I didn't just steal someone's shoes. Lol.)
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@AUBERGINE oooh maybe I should look into going to a festival!
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I do this and try my best to not touch my phone when I'm out.
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Ive never been the type of person who is comfortable going out in public alone, but a while ago, my friend and I were supposed to go to a Greg Mendez show and he got food poisoning; but I was not about to miss that gd show.
I was just like, fuck it we ball - and ended up having an awesome time, made a bunch of new friends, and met Greg & Lomelda so I’m officially an advocate for powering through the crippling anxiety and just going by yourself!
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because sometimes your friends don’t like the same music as you, and that’s okay.
take a book and be all mysterious; or make friends with everyone around you.
have fun with it, live your life without fear of embarrassment!
p.s. here’s a picture from the suede concert i went to alone yesterday :))
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picture this… you’re bored… you wanna go see a movie but all all your friends are busy/lame and dont wanna see it… revolutionary idea‼️ go alone‼️ i went to a listening event of currents (tame impala duh) alone cause i bought the last ticket and still had a great time. went to concerts alone cause ppl were busy. and met new friends there!!! especially if you live in a big city like london girl get off ur ass go on the chewb‼️ the point is… just do what you wanna fucking do girl fuck it
Feb 27, 2024

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