do you have pent up rage that you wish to expel in a controlled environment? maybe you're wanting to work out but the gym isn't cutting it. maybe you're aching to be touched in vulnerable and intimate ways and the public setting excites you. whatever it is, consider joining a contact sport!
wrestling or rugby, martial arts, gymnastics, or boxing, or football, there's so much to choose. my partner and i fell in love while learning how to fence. nothing more romantic than poking each other with thin swords.
go get touched by somebody.