not always a flirting tactic obviously but offering you a bite of their food, a sip from their cup, bringing you an extra bottle of water or snack without being asked—even if you don’t need anything the gesture is 🥵🔥 (full disclosure i’ve never been aware of anyone flirting with me *in the moment* and didn’t know my partner ever had before we dated until he told me a decade into our marriage that yes, actually, of course he was flirting with me 🫠 devastating)
Finally lighting the candle you’ve held onto because it smelled so good that you wanted to keep it forever but then lost it; reunited a few years later. Just to light it in your new apartment.
