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I personally have been guilty of abdicating all decisions to my cohort, thinking that saying that “anything is fine” is more agreeable. Instead I am trying to take more responsibility for my desires while remaining amenable to what my pals want. I like it!

@cilantro

1d ago

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@anna_begins

I always forget that coming up with your own suggestions for what to do or where to go is actually a lot easier for the other person when they ask you what you'd like!

1d ago

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ADVOCATING FOR YOUR NEEDS

It turns out that you can say "no" to things that aren't working out! Enough of letting my ego take me places at knife-point.

@_kzr_

May 9, 2025

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Saying yes when people invite you to things

Even if it doesn’t sound like the most exciting plan ever! I think it’s so easy to get stuck in hermit mode if you enjoy your own company. Also it’s nice to be invited to things and the more you say yes the more people will think of you when they’re looking for someone to invite