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spitting, like when mfs spit outside on the ground.
killing bugs outside…like actually kill yourself next. in the same vein, mean to animals.
not wanting kids is one thing. but hating kids? absolutely not. i once rejected a guy bc he joked about wanting to punt a kid.
uncomfy in their sexuality in a way that harms others or promotes a harmful rhetoric (this is mainly for men).
vaping (smoking doesn’t bother me at all—unless you’re an outside spitter!! but a plastic vape? someone get this guy out of here.) [even worse when they fiend for it and have to secretly puff indoors].
when white guys bash on women but make sure they specify they’re talking about white women thinking it makes them exempt from misogyny. i know what u are…
calling things cringe unironically in a condescending way. grow up.
ā€œi’m not into politics/you know the bad stuff is gonna happen no matter what you do/you can’t change the world so why botherā€
bragging about how niche your tastes are. love when someone thinks outside the box but you’re not better than anyone because you like obscure things. but in the other direction, calling those with more obscure or avant garde tastes ā€œpretentiousā€ bc they have no desire to open up their mind.

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You kinda went off here… also the killing bugs one (outside), I’d go as far as to say, if you can escort it outdoors that’s always the best first option! Also the white guys bashing on white women I’ll never understand… Ive met a few guys who have done this around me and it always left me confused as hell
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@_BILAL_ agreed on taking bugs outside but alas i am imperfect due to my irrational fear of wasps and roach trauma growing up in florida. but other bugs are my friends! as for the white men, i feel like they do it around me for some sort of weird sense of approval…but now i'm just side eyeing you, so i don't think your plan worked. i don’t want to be on your weird imaginary pedestal.
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all very correct opinions šŸ‘‘
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@MARXINISTA thank u fellow queen ur one of the smart voices i respect most here <3
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omg ty 😌 likewiseeee!!!!
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