There’s something extremely dreamlike about those places that only observe our transience. They’re not the destination or the main event but are just a landmark beckoning, whispering “you’re getting closer” or “goodbye“ or maybe even saying nothing at all. They are witnesses to nothing. Just the before and the after. These are places you've thought about just barely enough to be ingrained in your subconscious, and removed from their context, taken out of their journey. Many places are often nearly universally liminal. Highway ramps and nondescript hallways. I’m thinking of the ramp to go southbound on I-75 in Detroit, where I often drove sleepily, steeped in anticipatory joy, soon to be reunited with my (now ex) lover. Others are subjectively liminal, like the apartment complex outside the Korean spa I frequent in the colder months. The buildings in the night I consider are main stages for their inhabitants, cradling new marriages, single mothers, divorced uncles, and fresh graduates. Altogether I think appreciating of liminal spaces helps us recognize the habitual joys (and slogs) of life.
today I was finishing up my lunch and a massive protest walked by the building i was in. I still had a bunch time left on my break, so I joined them for about 4 or 5 blocks before I headed back to work - no sign, no garb, just showing up with my body. it was really beautiful and i wish I could have stayed longer. looking up at the buildings and seeing all the other office workers watching the march from their windows is a weird reverse spectacle to me - as a salaried young professional myself it was like looking in a mirror and in a prison at the same time.
in our second year of dating, my boyfriend found a tiny kitten that had somehow snuck into his basement. the little creature was terrified, and thus was lured into a looney tunes-esque trap: a standard file box topped with a skyline chili can, propped with a ballpoint pen tied to a string. it’s been two and a half years and it’s safe to say that he is now our friend 🥲