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I think a lot of things didn't change in my life until I started making the effort to change things about my life and myself! Then naturally things fall into place. I can't wait anymore...
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💭and so I will change.
I’ve recently began to take the reins a little bit more. In my life I have, for the most part, been waiting for things to just happen. Although it seems like that’s how life works when you look at the people around you, it’s not. At least it’s not for me. It often feels like I’m looking at life like a snow globe. And I’m outside watching it. So I’ve been trying to take action as much as I can. For me action looks like driving more, trying new things, taking care of myself, etc.
With that said, I have to give myself compassion for when nothing changes. I can’t do it all and I remind myself that moments of stagnation are good and healthy and necessary.
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😃something ive found over the course of the past year and a half is that personal change is completely unnoticed until you look at yourself and compare how you were in the past compared to now. every moment we are changing and that is the beauty of life. every conversation, every thought, and every action we have in our world is contributing to a personal change in the self. its a simple thought, that change happens over time, but a thought that we as humans often dont want to consider. its a hard thing to be aware of. that a personal journey takes a lifetime. if we could make major improvements on ourselves in one night we all would, but unfortunutely change involves millions of small, mostly unnoticed, steps that contribute to a prosperous life, whatever that means to you. some steps are bigger than others, for example quitting unhealthy habits, or cutting toxic people out of your life as much as you can, but most of it is a combination of living life and seeing things through all of the lenses. this is at least what i have learned through the start of my life and how i see change. is it possible to see change? of course. is it likely that most change will go unnoticed and only realized far later? yes.
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🥽lots of great responses in this thread! just wanted to say that true change takes so much longer than we expect it to. I started on a journey of “changing my life” and my attitude towards it back in 2020, and its only now in 2024 that I’m starting to see major changes that I can trace back to that original decision to improve my life. Sure, there’s been lots of rewarding little milestones along the way, but the big things take time.
The lesson is, don’t be hard on yourself if you make changes but your life isn’t tangibly improved next month. Make changes for your long-term future self :)
The lesson is, don’t be hard on yourself if you make changes but your life isn’t tangibly improved next month. Make changes for your long-term future self :)
Dec 9, 2024
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🌟I call everyone beautiful, like wow beautiful soul... beautiful face... beautiful human being 🕊️especially calling men beautiful lol<3 Sometimes they get confused, but it applies to Anyone, and that is... Beautiful
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🤣I was inspired by a Righteous Gemstones quote, and now instead of saying gossip and lies, I've been using sayings like telling fables, tall tales, making dubious claims etc .. Yesterday my friend dropped "Yo bro you're peddling falsehoods right now" and it fucking killed me I don't know why this is so funny to me I woke up laughing about it. Anyways
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‼️I am big emoji fan🤪they allow me to express myself through the screen... i think at this point I should be able to use emojis in my essays and serious emials 💯 it would fill my life with more joy... 🌟
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