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Crises, like most things (eating, drinking, fucking), are best shared with somebody. Whether it’s quarter-life, third-life or, in our case, midlife because we plan on dying in a ritualistic murder-suicide before the age of 70, doing something completely drastic with your boy can really help shake shit up for the both of you, while bringing you closer together in the process. We got our ears pierced, but honestly the sky’s the limit.
Sep 7, 2021
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tbh making posts like these is just gonna make it worse! its indulging in your subconscious desire to somehow be in thought-contact with him, to still center him somehow, to still make him relevant, to still feel affected by him. cut it out completely! you've already gone through the journaling phase and the debrief phase with your friends (and the posting about it on forums phase :p!) so then its time to do boy removal. stop talking about him, stop stalking his page, stop thinking about him and more importantly- you in relation to him. instead of 'what can i do with my time to get me to stop thinking about boy x', maybe switch it to i simply just: i need some fun little hobbies to make my time feel better. you were always real and complete...so continue always being real and complete... and maybe also pursue some new dick if that is your thing.
Mar 31, 2025
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Low risk. Low commitment. Prolongs the time before you get the ever looming ick. my timeline is usually1-3 months… working on this in therapy 👍🏻
Nov 16, 2023
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take this lil romantic hiatus to invest in the other loved ones in your life. a lot of the pain from a breakup comes from losing the parts of your life that came with the other person - the places you would go, the habits you developed, the role emotionally they played in your life, etc. thing is you can find other folks in your life who can play those roles as well! if you have deep relationships in other areas of your life, the next breakup won't feel like losing a significant part of your life as much as losing one string of a spiderweb of people in your life. go invite friends out for 1 on 1 stuff, do things with big groups, find out what you can do in and of yourself to support yourself. it's easier to date and open yourself up to the risk of being hurt if the proportion of you that you're giving to this person up front isn't so big. you can give them more of the web over time as you grow together.
Apr 1, 2024
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Your jokes aren’t funny. Your takes are ice cold. Your thoughts on Zoë Kravitz and Channing Tatum are dumb as fuck. Contrarianism isn't a personality. Nothing good has ever come from tweeting, so stop. Just stop it. Thank you.
Sep 7, 2021
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Let’s get the most important one out of the way up top and acknowledge why we're here. If you, like us, are desperately pining for acknowledgement and seeing your name in emails, boy do we have a recommendation for you. This requires patience, but for temporary validation, just follow these few easy steps:
Sep 7, 2021
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Want a clean slate to start completely fresh? Want to be forced to fight your way out of a corner for survival? Want to drag yourself out of rock bottom’s basement? Blow up your whole shit in spectacular fashion and you won’t have any other choice. We did it, and you can too!
Sep 7, 2021