privileged take if you are not in a city or work remote but if you can, work around the constraint- not having to worry about insurance, accidents, fines, having โpropertyโ is so freeing too
just moved to a city for the first time after living in the suburbs/having a car since I was 16 and I feel so FREE!! its so nice to just walk somewhere and not have to go 20 minutes to get to a store!!
I'm 30, my city is walkable, I enjoy feeling righteous about not contributing to car pollution and I like being an inconvenience to the drivers in my life when I need a lift x
(I don't think this is a flex but I am always going to act like it is)
concert? play? Reading? niche movie screening? Rave? Restaurant you want to try? whatever it is, try to wrangle friends if its up their alley (not a pro-antisocial message here) but if it does not work out, take urself! literally worst case scenario absolutely no one gives a fuck best case you make new circumstantial friends. Every one is busy making money and chasing what inspires them to stay here so schedules align once in a blue moon, donโt let that stop you from discovering / enjoying shit.