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If someone wants to sleep all day because their week has been superbly exhausting, why judge them? If someone wants to eat things you wouldn’t put in your body, why judge them? A lot of times we’re so worried about others habits when we have to reflect and think why? It costs $0 to judge nobody & mind your business.
Jan 25, 2024
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I don’t mean this in a let’s enforce toxic positivity way. And maybe this sounds simple and obvious but I’ve learned from my own experience and observations that it can be off-putting to others to always be complaining, criticizing, or saying negative things! It can really bring the energy down whether it’s in interactions with close friends, significant others, family, coworkers, dates, or strangers and it doesn’t make people feel good.
This isn’t to say that you should never have critical thoughts, engage in difficult conversations, or share your heavy emotions with people you trust. but I think this is something people can do without even realizing it’s a pattern for them and it has an effect on your own psyche as well imo… and it feels great to bring a little light into someone’s day 🌦️
Apr 19, 2024
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sometimes it's necessary and it can make friendships stronger to find a mutual thing to bitch about. it's my favorite past time. you are not a better person just because you don't complain and gossip so stop judging others for doing it.
Jan 30, 2025
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why be negative when you can be positive. If you see someone do something dumb just ignore it (unless it’s especially funny then you can share it with friends another time).
We only live once so best to focus on the positives. When you’re nice to others you feel much better yourself. And everyone’s constantly learning, making mistakes anyway so while other people may seem uninformed sometimes, you also will be at points and you wouldn’t want to be ridiculed for that.
As for others being negative, just nod along and ignore. Or try to change the topic.
Jan 28, 2025
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Maybe I’m just psycho but like listening to sad music before going out is so Bible. I want to just feel to the earth before I‘m listening to dancing music all night. Even just listening before the pregame when you’re getting ready. It puts a cherry on TOP for my night.
Jan 25, 2024
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I’m sorry but like nothing beats nearing the end of the night out with a Corona & a lime OR an Angry Orchard like it’s genuinely so Bible
Jan 26, 2024
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Just trying new things in general, even if you’re not the best at it, at least you tried it, fuck a comfort zone
Jan 29, 2024