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sometimes it's necessary and it can make friendships stronger to find a mutual thing to bitch about. it's my favorite past time. you are not a better person just because you don't complain and gossip so stop judging others for doing it.
Jan 30, 2025
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I don’t mean this in a let’s enforce toxic positivity way. And maybe this sounds simple and obvious but I’ve learned from my own experience and observations that it can be off-putting to others to always be complaining, criticizing, or saying negative things! It can really bring the energy down whether it’s in interactions with close friends, significant others, family, coworkers, dates, or strangers and it doesn’t make people feel good.
This isn’t to say that you should never have critical thoughts, engage in difficult conversations, or share your heavy emotions with people you trust. but I think this is something people can do without even realizing it’s a pattern for them and it has an effect on your own psyche as well imo… and it feels great to bring a little light into someone’s day 🌦️
Apr 19, 2024
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Feeling wronged by a former lover? Tell them, then just let that shit go.
Friend made a flippant comment that upset you. Just tell them and move on with the friendship instead of letting things build.
Hold people to a higher standard. As long as you’re not hurting anyones feelings.
Mar 13, 2024
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If someone wants to sleep all day because their week has been superbly exhausting, why judge them? If someone wants to eat things you wouldn’t put in your body, why judge them? A lot of times we’re so worried about others habits when we have to reflect and think why? It costs $0 to judge nobody & mind your business.
Jan 25, 2024
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this idea of "you don't owe anyone anything" came about through the social media therapists that try to diagnose complete strangers with a multitude of issues and complexes. all it has done has made selfish people more selfish and divided us as a community.
you do not owe everyone everything, but if you consider yourself part of a community, a society, you do owe everyone something. at a base level you owe people kindness, respect (as long as they haven't lost the right to it), and basic human decency. you owe your loved ones even more.
stop being selfish and rude in the name of treating your so-called "people pleasing."
Feb 4, 2025
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if one more person tells me to turn one of my hobbies into a business i'm gonna go berserk. is nothing sacred in this late stage capitalist hellscape?
Feb 3, 2025
i swear to god it's upside down and it makes me giggle every time i see it. pls tell me you see it too and i'm not crazy. i love it.
Mar 24, 2025