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I'm not always good at this. And sometimes it feels so administrative. But, getting a plan on the calendar makes sure that I can prioritize everyone in my life in the way I want, and that feels good. No more planning the weekend on Friday afternoon.
Jan 26, 2024
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As a chronic planner who needs to have things laid out AT LEAST a week beforehand, sometimes you need to let go of scheduling and say yes to going out and hanging with friends.
Jun 23, 2024
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Schedule them! Schedule them! Life gets busy and youβll never find time if you donβt schedule them!
Jun 13, 2024
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I joke with my friends that we have quarterly or biannual meetings because the calendars really do get full. Whether it's work, life admin, housework... Give me at least a day's notice but ideally 4 weeks notice and that means I can literally arrange my life to meet with just you on a precious day off π«Ά
I also don't live close to any of my friends, so the preparation is so necessary. I have days blocked out in October and November, for real.
May 15, 2025
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I've been on a real journey lately. You see the person across the room and you know them... and you know they know you... but you know that they aren't going to come over and say hi... do it. Take the plunge. However the approach needs to happen, make contact. Don't wait until you see them at the next networking event and say "hey were you at the taco place the other day?" It's surprisingly empowering and frankly kind of an impressive social maneuver. The reward is giddy and powerful and immediate. It makes me feel like I've broken out of the matrix.
2d ago
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Any degree, any intensity, the world needs to know. If the care is there, u gotta share.
2d ago
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My friend and I happened upon this. Meaning, strive to live your life in a way that makes you feel hot. Dress to feel hot. Talk to feel hot. Do whatever you do, but in a way that makes you feel like you're worthy of the love and adoration and crushes and desire you deserve. This does not mean "sexy" necessarily--hotness is always shifting and has many forms. But reach deep inside and you'll find that your own personal method and mode of hotness can always, and most of the time is, an excellent guide.
Jun 8, 2024