its the perfect time to make a confrontation, get a little emotional and loud, get up and have a cigarette cool down one on one, come back, settle or agree to disagree. Ok i know its actually not that chill but if there’s A emotional conflict it just feels good to follow a strange rulebook To lighten the load
Jan 30, 2024

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