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Pregame with music or even a tv show that makes you feel social, makes you want to go out and about.… you can also pregame with a lil liquid courage if you feel inclined. I would say just focus on not bailing on this one dude as opposed to focusing on fixing your perceived overall tendency to bail. Have fun!!

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