Every master I have ever met, martial artist, musician, marble mason, has remained a student. If you listen it’s easy tell who will have your back and who will not. My aunts says, when people tell you who they are, believe them! It will help you hear red flags and the fire alarm. People who do not know how to listen are confused. They will live alone and die alone. You do not need to take anyone’s advice about anything but it pays to know who is smart and who is not. Listen to yourself.