I was told once I give good advice, and I think about that when I doubt myself. Sometimes itβs easier to trust your gut, when you know the people you love trust it also. Thats always stuck with me.
asking more than one person, having an open mind, carefully considering radically different perspectives from your own, giving other viewpoints a fair chance. this includes emotional matters & practical affairs as well most people like giving advice, but few people feel enough trust and willingness to be vulnerable they'll ask for it. being unsure is value neutral, it's perfectly alright not to be sure what to do next.
