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like hey buddy i see that you’re hurting. i’m sorry you’re in pain right now. is there anything i can do to help? do you need a hug, a shower, a nap? do you need to have a cry? or we can just sit here in silence together. i’ll wait with you til the pain goes away, it’s okay if it takes a while.
Feb 6, 2024
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i wish we could meet irl and distract from our broken hearts a little bit by doing things together and hug.
im experiencing the same thing rn (devastating and out of the blue) and it helps me write down everything, every thought, word, idea, emotion that i feel i need to write it down.
i’ve seen my friends every day, i’ve watched movies, i’ve read a lot. i know it feels like it’s not going to get better but i promise it will. is reminding yourself that everything passes, let all the emotions pass through you. it’s reminding yourself that -new and goods things are coming to you- though i know it’s really hard and painful to think abt yourself in a future where that person is no longer there. :-(
i understand how painful time passes, how painful it is to think about that person and all the attached memories, but it’s time to think about all the new memories YOU are going to create, that life is painful but not that much, it’s time to cry it all, and to get things done. little by little, days pass and the pain will start to fade away, sometimes you’ll be alright, sometimes you won’t, but is all part of the process.
i’m sorry you are experiencing that horrible thing called heartbreak, i hug u wherever you are. 🫂
Apr 18, 2024
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thank them for the growth they’ve helped foster in you
hug them, hard
dye your hair, stay in bed for 48 hours, cry on your bff’s floor, let yourself feel the grief
begin to notice the gratitude your body n soul feel for the courage it took you to listen to what you need
begin again, and again, and again
I am also going through smth like this…I feel your pain </3
Sep 26, 2024
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yesterday my girlfriend was sobbing in bed because she felt like a failure. at first, i didn't know what to do. i tried to help her on her tasks, i tried to do the job for her. it didn't work. it didn't seem to be helping at all. so i stopped and laid down next to her. and i held her hand. and we stayed like that for half an hour. then, slowly, carefully, she started to get closer to me. she hugged me. she was still crying but she was now letting me into that pain. and i thought: this is what i want for you. this is what i want for us. to be able to rest with each other.
Jan 23, 2024
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love you . mwah
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hellscape site .. need i say more
Feb 10, 2024
to keep everything everyone’s ever written me! post-its from mum, postcards from family, letters from friends. the little girl up the road once drew a picture of us holding hands and i will treasure it until the day i die.
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