If yr freshly-minted ex is a total buster, block TF out of them, delete your message history (if yr prone to look back at yr old texts), and put all the things that remind u of them into a box under yr bed. Spend a month moping, reconnecting with all the people you love, and live in grief. Then start dating yourself -- go on walks, hit the club, have a lovely homemade dinner, get a new vibrator, watch the sunset, read a book in the park. Make promises to yourself that you don't break, those are the most important
my friends gave me so much shit for not telling them about the guy who brought a Freud book to our first date until after he dumped me. so now i’m sharing everything that’s even slightly questionable (like getting compared to ramona flowers)
My dad got it for free at some Microsoft event and gave it to me in middle school. I have very fond memories of burning CDs from the library and putting it on this brick of a device. I was so attached to it that I used to REFUSE to sign up for Spotify because I didn’t “like my phone and music being on the same device.” Very easy to use, loved that it was black in contrast to Apple’s white. Would never look good inside pants pocket because of how fat it was though.
