I was done with the whole dating crush thing long time ago, i kind of got back to it this year but i got by a brick of disappointment (even tho i didn’t expect much as mechanism to not get ”heart broken”) - mostly because of the “getting a text back after 14 hours or so” and i become up front about it and confort people by saying “ no one is more busy than someone who is not interested “, and guess what ? I literally get ghosted after the confrontation:))) so yeah, it’s not worth it, everyone now days with social media is acting non chalant and expecting to get the “attention” without putting the effort Or even just ”collecting” as much people as they can … which is sick and absurd but anyone, the human unfortunately is evil.
wrote my number on his notes on friday... signed it with a heart.... was so certain he liked me but still no text. maybe he's gay. who knows but i'm cutting my losses atp before i get more obsessed and involved. c'est la vie but i'm still angry and upset about it. note to self: don't get obsessed with guys before you even get their phone numbers