Rec
moving here can be really hard!!! my first year or two was extremely difficult but i eventually found my footing. i recommend staying open to possibilities but also being selective—there is sooo much to choose from here that new things are often worth trying but you also dont have to waste your time on things that feel untrue to you. it's all about finding the balance ^___^ seek out what interests you and dont be afraid of taking risks!!!
Feb 20, 2024

Comments

Make an account to reply.
image
bring it on, baby! i love a good challenge!
Feb 22, 2024
1
image
suki hell ya!!!
Feb 22, 2024

Related Recs

Rec
🦐
I used to try so hard to reinvent myself and it drove me absolutely crazy trying to be something that I wasn't. Just be open to new experiences and people and push yourself out of your comfort zone a little after you leave. Both leaving the place that you've been comfortable in and gradating high school are big changes and they will already kickstart the process of finding yourself. If you're open to it, you'll absolutely find yourself even if you don't realize it in the moment. You've got this!
Apr 18, 2024
Rec
like actually going out and trying things. put in an effort and take pride in that (being effortless is soooo out for 2024). use this platform to find new amazing things! you can never really know what you like and what brings you joy and fulfillment and all that cheesy stuff unless you actually go and really try a bunch of stuff. I love trying!
Feb 6, 2024
Rec
🌍
honestly this feels like shitty advice but there's no other way to put it... I moved continents to go to university without knowing a soul in the place I would live - and I managed by basically pushing myself to going to every university event that was going on (freshers week, night outs, etc), talking to as many people as possible and barely staying in my dorm.
it was absolutely terrifying. both moving and trying to make friends. but I wouldn't change the experience and the life I've built for the world. you grow so much out of it.
Jul 15, 2025

Top Recs from @sofi

Rec
🌟
i have my dream job, live in my dream city, love my friends, love my wardrobe, love my apartment... sometimes the bliss hits me all at once. i have so much to be grateful for!! :'3
Feb 2, 2024
Rec
💬
working with children has made this a permanent part of my daily vocabulary but honestly it feels good!!!
Feb 14, 2024
Rec
recommendation image
🎨
i am so obsessed with the prehistoric world and the art made during that time! so deeply moving and inspiring to me, i feel the magnitude of these works with my whole heart
Feb 3, 2024