Sometimes you are out late and don’t want to stop hanging with your bestie and you literally know you are gonna text them “bagel?” In 5 hours when you wake up… just cut out the middle man. its normal and incredibly wholesome
Your screen light being the only light to illuminate your room. Your friends voice being the only you hear as your ears get hot from your headphones. The random fits of laughing over stuff you can’t even remember in the morning. The stretching as you get up to get a snack. The singing songs randomly. The deep talks. It’s like a childhood sleepover all over again.
i love to be with my pals and experience the phases of the evening— dinner, sweet treat, dancing, pizza, chatting, video games, about to crash. it feels so wonderful to experience the whole gambit and then part ways.
My friend and I happened upon this. Meaning, strive to live your life in a way that makes you feel hot. Dress to feel hot. Talk to feel hot. Do whatever you do, but in a way that makes you feel like you're worthy of the love and adoration and crushes and desire you deserve. This does not mean "sexy" necessarily--hotness is always shifting and has many forms. But reach deep inside and you'll find that your own personal method and mode of hotness can always, and most of the time is, an excellent guide.
I've been on a real journey lately. You see the person across the room and you know them... and you know they know you... but you know that they aren't going to come over and say hi... do it. Take the plunge. However the approach needs to happen, make contact. Don't wait until you see them at the next networking event and say "hey were you at the taco place the other day?" It's surprisingly empowering and frankly kind of an impressive social maneuver. The reward is giddy and powerful and immediate. It makes me feel like I've broken out of the matrix.