Mar 15, 2024
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it is never what I expect
i don't mean to be ungrateful
i want to be thankful
i end up confused and i fear that my circumstances will hurt the people around me, so it feels like i have to avoid them. even though i am capable of being loved, what about being loved the way i crave? and yet, I get that too and it feels hauntingly incorrect. sorry if i don't deserve what I am being given, I don't know what is wrong with me!
Mar 13, 2025
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Do it for yourself, not because you owe anyone anything
And "tolerate" doesn't mean accept mistreatment, marginalization, disrespect, dishonor, abuse, or anything thereabouts
Other people carry loads of baggage and insecurity and hurt and complexity that is sometimes going to flare out at you in ways that are really truly unfair. You absolutely didn't deserve that crap.
For me this is a revelation: disconnecting other people's lousy beahvior from me, realizing that it is about them, not about me. I don't have to be in relationship with them if it is going to keep hurting me. I don't have to own their unresolved issues. And at the same time I don't have to live a smaller, diminished life because of it.
4d ago
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Python!
Honestly very hard for me to get into - I have ZERO coding knowledge and nothing I could really latch onto - knowledge transfer is how I learn. But https://futurecoder.io/ is great (after lots of Redditing)
Aug 18, 2024
The puffin is the latest addition to more than 180 known species—many of them sharks, corals, and other marine animals—that emit a luminous glow.
The fact that so many marine animals biofluoresce "tells us organisms are using light in ways we don't even see," John Sparks, curator of fishes at the American Museum of Natural History in New York City.
Nov 16, 2024
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I read that happiness is when your expectations falls below the reality. A new mind project for April. Good prognosis.
Apr 7, 2024