esp if you work in an industry you semi-enjoy- you’d be surprised how many people youll find that have insane similarities or the same humor and goals as you. ive met some amazing people and women in my life thru work situations - yes its awkward as hell sometimes meeting new people and crossing that boundary - ive had jobs that I havent made connections but you have to keep yourself open to the possibility🧘♀️ some of my best friends are coworkers stolen for long life relationships
It can be scary to bring together friends from different groups or parts of your life, but once in awhile I go for it anyways and it’s always so rewarding. They usually get along great and sometimes even become great friends. If they don’t get along, then it’s only an hour or two of awkward and you can gossip about it later.
There’s a weird phenomenon in New York where you keep all your contacts from everyone else who might take something away from you - it’s mostly oriented around career. BUT! Guess what? Nothing matters. Who cares? People are going to work with who they want to work with, you might as well put in a good word, I believe karma is a real thing. I love talking about my friends' accolades to people they don’t know, you never know what could come of it. Surround yourself with unselfish, soft human people, and the rest is history.
I will not listen to instagram nutritionists or 20 year olds who read a handful of studies on Reddit dot com/pudmed. i WILL be listening to the people with years of science and experience
its literally my closet, i bought it bc i like it and want to wear it- why would i not rewear the outfit if it was a hit? forever thinking of that lizzie mcguire "well you're an outfit remember-er" quote
