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It’s just you in the end after all, you have to check in with yourself
Mar 24, 2024
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Maybe seems a little lame, since I know most of us associate birthdays with parties and fun. But I think it’s the perfect day to take a step back and ask yourself what you did in the last year, how you’ve changed. Even if nothing sticks out to you at first, there is SOMETHING different. Even if it’s tiny. That’s why you separate yourself and embrace the silence so you can really focus and find all the changes in your life.
May 19, 2025
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my partner is overseas so i’m embracing spending my birthday alone today and indulging in little luxuries i.e. morning walk to grab my fave iced latte, making a fancy breakfast, getting dressed nice just for me, maybe taking myself out to dinner later. happy birthday to me!
May 21, 2024
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Every year for my birthday I just pick something I’ve been wanting to do/go to and treat myself. Previously it’s been: going to a vibey dinner place, going to the aquarium and sitting in the leopard shark room, going to an art museum. I like the peace of doing something alone and getting to just be like wow what a fun life I live and how much more there is to see! I plan things with friends too sometimes but this little practice ensures that my birthday is satisfying to me in some way even if my friend plans dont always go as I’d want.
May 19, 2025
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Gazpacho only in the late summer, persimmons only in the winter, etc. just because we can import anything from anywhere anytime doesn’t mean we should. Nothing is special if you can have it whenever you want it.
May 22, 2024
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Whenever my housemate Cody and I have to do home improvement we say “let’s play hammer and saw”. i love playing hammer
Feb 8, 2024
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What is she doing on her calculator app ?? Who is he texting ??? What are they listening to on Spotify ??? To truly be on the pulse of culture we must invade the privacy of our fellow commuters just a little bit
May 3, 2025