i think more bisexual people should try being nice and normal to lesbians.
there is just so much energy from our community being wasted on complaining about how hard it is to be a woman with a (cis and/or het) boyfriend. Actually, it’s fine. just leave him at home sometimes
Used to get icked out with men over the most insane stuff. Would “lose” feelings in two seconds over the smallest things (por ejemplo: I am not proud to admit… ghosted a man because I hated his sunglasses…). Thought my standards would always be too impossibly high, I would never find love, etc…. enter: my first serious wlw relationship. suddenly, none of that stuff mattered anymore. I was baffled. I was talking to my therapist about it one day and deadass said something along the lines of “it’s almost like… I like her as a *person* who I want to *spend time with,* and I liked the guys I’ve dated because I liked how it felt to have a boyfriend” and I remember her just looking at me for a long time until I was like WAIT HOLD UP sometimes, the ick is simply a result of your internalized homophobia fam. consider this an apology to the male community - turns out I didn’t hate yall, was just playing for the wrong team ((real answer - the one thing that stuck? not tipping / being rude to waitstaff. instant nope from me))
