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give up being a hater
The hater mentality and cynicism you project outward is also how you think about yourself and you’re bumming everybody out
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@Shadowbeni
Apr 7, 2024
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@marianoleonczik
Being a hater is fun until you realize that people stop inviting you to things. Sort of a ✨shocking✨ revelation when you realize that hating on everything makes you unbearble to be around. Let people enjoy things!!!
Apr 8, 2024
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@dietmoney
Respectfully disagree. Hating on things gives relativity and weight to the things you do like. Will concede that hating is an art and not everyone can pull it off
Apr 8, 2024
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@Shadowbeni
dietmoney oh yeah, there are levels to it. Being critical and insightful and discerning is different from being judgmental. I hate marvel movies and I’ve never gotten into anime but I don’t dismiss people for liking them
Apr 8, 2024
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@madame
dietmoney I guess it depends if you’re hating on people or things/ideas
Apr 9, 2024
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@Shadowbeni
madame great way to sum it up
Apr 9, 2024
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@dietmoney
madame mainly the latter but sometimes the former in extreme circumstances
Apr 10, 2024
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@madame
and limiting your own happiness……… haters r sad inside
Apr 7, 2024
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