Flaws make you genuine, being genuine makes you unique, being unique makes confidence, being confidence makes tou sexy, being sexy makes you perfectly imperfect!
I realized a few years ago that my desire and attempts to look a certain way were failing. It wasnât realistic, and it was making me feel inauthentic, empty, and unhappy. Cameras capture every thing, so itâs easy to dwell on imperfections. But thatâs not how people experience you. Itâs not how others think about you or see you. Imagine how critical you are of yourself and imagine someone else being that critical of another person. Youâd think thereâs something wrong with them! Who focuses on a personâs looks that much! Get a life you misery!
Thatâs how we treat ourselves. Thereâs an epidemic happening where everyone wants and is going out and getting the same face. The same body. Itâs so boring. Your âflawsââas society has taught you to think about themâare not flaws. They make you unique. Memorable. They make you beautiful. To love yourself is active resistance in an economy fueled by obsession over flaws and unhappiness.
One of the actors in White Lotus, Aimee Lou Woods has some objectively flawed teeth. But thatâs what makes her so unique, so special. So cute! They make her attractive because sheâs unapologetic about them.
Embracing my big goofy smile and big ears and crinkled crows feet makes me feel comfortable in my own skin. That feeling is so powerful. It spreads to other parts of your life and attracts people to you. Itâs how you carry yourself, how you move in the world, engage with other peopleâ not how you look.
Yeah severance is the best tv show on right now and I will watch it and discuss the nuances and the shots and coloring and the writing!! like Thatâs art, thatâs critiquing culture, thatâs bringing something new to the table I will ALSO sit my ass down with wine and popcorn and watch the new love is blind episodes(and love island this summer!!!) because tv can also serve the purpose of shutting my brain O-F-F !!
You can always redownload it. If I keep opening Pinterest during work, just delete it for a while!! I can download it again. Also we all know I mean Twitter and that I canât go on it bc it will depress me .
I like working out and when I leave a workout class and I feel sore and then I take an epsom salt bath and I get in bed and my body just feels like YEAH you USED ME TODAY YAY. I love that.