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1. i think this idea is already embarassing
2. i dont have many people invite me to do things regularly so i guess i can have what i want
3. wait this is so embarrassing i feel
Apr 21, 2024
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downloaded dating apps again after being asked for the millionth time why i'm not seeing anyone right now ... created my profile, swiped, and deleted everything within 24 hours .. again. why is everyone in such a rush to find that kind of connection? if i want a date night i'll call my friends. if i want mind-blowing physical satisfaction i'll put on a cate blanchett movie and do it myself. i just ordered a bundle of my favorite (terrible) (perfect) 1970s gothic romance novels to fufill my romantic dialogue needs... anywayssss have been feeling very content with my little life thank you to this piece (linked!!!) for validating all kinds of intimacy not just 'the one'
Feb 21, 2024
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should i drop everything and move to nyc? should i go to the club tonight with friends and kiss a stranger? should i pretend like everyone is in love with me?
Jan 27, 2025
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im gonna ramble for a second. i have a real distaste for dating apps, but despite this i still don’t delete them. a small part of me thinks it’ll work out in my favor one day. but shoutout the loyal storylikers i’ve gained from failed hinge talking stages hahaha… i have a very loose definition of ‘type’ in terms of physicality, and even then someone physicality is never a deal breaker. usually. i don’t think i am meant to meet people this way. and i think a lot of people also say this so i am not original in this feeling, but i think i need to fall in love with a friend, someone that there is already a baseline compatibility with, a mutual appreciation already there. all the fanfic i read as a kid was a friends to lovers trope! and i think it works for a reason. that being said its scary to become friends with someone and then think your feelings are further than platonic, because now its hard to decipher between what could be deliberately flirty or just like. your standard hang ykno? i still have never successfully deciphered this so i don’t wanna stand on my soapbox and act like i have any real expertise. just thinking out loud. i’ve been kinda lonely recently and everyone around me has been getting into relationships, this venus retrograde is no joke haha. and the added nuance to the lesbian dating experience, ive been feeling more isolated than usual. sorry this one’s a bummer a little!!! maybe i should stick to album / song reviews
Mar 12, 2025
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just bought more storage on a free trial i love capitalism
Apr 19, 2024
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as in having clear skin
Apr 9, 2024
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we get it you watched Tarantino one time and now you feel like filmmaking is the path for you but no you can’t since you have subjected yourself to an acceptable paying job. all jobs pay. i guess its just what you prefer … something all these men carry in common is that they feel that they have hidden something away in them that they will never get to express but i feel that takes away from my desire to express myself in filmmaking i dont think it matters that much but also like why…
ive been reading tiny beautiful things realizing that the thing that has bothered me about male perception is that female work is perceived as not universal
Apr 17, 2024