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Years ago, if a friend of mine was experiencing trouble at work or school or with their partner/other friends and asked me for advice or vented, I would very easily default to “quit!” or “drop out“ or “dump their ass you deserve better king/queen/my liege”
And as a result, no one improved, in fact we backslid into becoming reactive or destructive and eventually, bore no patience with one another because there was no good ground to stand on
Life has gotten better since I and others stopped abandoning ship at any sign of discomfort.
Don’t let your friends destroy their lives because you give them a stamp of approval!
Apr 22, 2024
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like If you think it’s kind of weird and gross that your friend vapes all the time you should tell them to stop. I feel like families used to play this role but it got out of hand and now everybody minds their business too much. I don’t want my friends having a nic problem at 40!!
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