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Holding your peers to A high standard

Years ago, if a friend of mine was experiencing trouble at work or school or with their partner/other friends and asked me for advice or vented, I would very easily default to “quit!” or “drop out“ or “dump their ass you deserve better king/queen/my liege”
And as a result, no one improved, in fact we backslid into becoming reactive or destructive and eventually, bore no patience with one another because there was no good ground to stand on
Life has gotten better since I and others stopped abandoning ship at any sign of discomfort.
Don’t let your friends destroy their lives because you give them a stamp of approval!

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Speaking your mind

Feeling wronged by a former lover? Tell them, then just let that shit go. Friend made a flippant comment that upset you. Just tell them and move on with the friendship instead of letting things build.
Hold people to a higher standard. As long as you’re not hurting anyones feelings.

@elipips

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BE TOUGH ON YOUR “FRIENDS”

If someone looks at his phone while talking to you: stop the conversation immediately If someone is late for a meeting more than twice: cut the friendship. If someone doesn’t reply to a personal email: forget this person. Curate all the people who only talk about food, vacation places and gym routines out of your live. If you need help for whatever reason and a friend checks his calendar first it’s not a friend.

@Fishsauce

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Never changing

My dad teases me about how when I was a little kid, my favorite thing to do when I was on the landline phone with somebody—be it a relative or one of my best friends—was to breathlessly describe the things that were in my bedroom so that they could have a mental picture of everything I loved and chose to surround myself with, and where I sat at that moment in time. Perfectly Imperfect reminds me of that so thanks for always listening and for sharing with me too 💌

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