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DOES ANYONE KNOW HOW TO STOP HAVING A FEAR OF BEING PERCEIVED. I GET REALLY AWKWARD BECAUSE OF THIS. I DON'T KNOW HOW TO GO ABOUT IT.
Apr 23, 2024
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I GREW UP WITH REALLY BAD ANXIETY, SO NOW I SEEK OUT AWKWARDNESS AS A SORT OF EXPOSURE THERAPY FOR MYSELF. I FULL SEND INTO CONVERSATIONS BEING COMPLETELY MYSELF NO MATTER THE FEAR I HAVE OF WHAT OTHERS WILL THINK OF ME. TURNS OUT THAT MOST OF THE TIME IT GOES PRETTY WELL, AND IF ITS AWKWARD I CAN HANDLE IT NOW. :)
May 27, 2025
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I GREW UP WITH REALLY BAD ANXIETY, SO NOW I SEEK OUT AWKWARDNESS AS A SORT OF EXPOSURE THERAPY FOR MYSELF. I FULL SEND INTO CONVERSATIONS BEING COMPLETELY MYSELF NO MATTER THE FEAR I HAVE OF WHAT OTHERS WILL THINK OF ME. TURNS OUT THAT MOST OF THE TIME IT GOES PRETTY WELL, AND IF ITS AWKWARD I CAN HANDLE IT NOW. :)
May 27, 2025
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i see the letters and hear the sounds in my head but for some reason i just ignore saying it
Apr 26, 2024
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sometimes the easiest way is to let it pass. Sometimes go wreck something. Other times its really whatever you feel like doing at the time. I'm at that very part of my life where nothing feels right. I don't know how not to feel this way, but i can always ask myself what i want and try to give myself whatever it is that i feel i need at the time.
Apr 23, 2024
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I was never taught how to handle money and that how i ended up here. Teaching myself as i go so i thought i'd document my findings.
Money is such an easy concept. Very few technicalities but that's it. My reason for deciding to want to know how to handle money is solely because i don't have stuff. I realized that even the simplest most basic stuff i don't own.
I don't have alot so i assume i should just spend it all without any planning. If i'm not careful i might end up doing the same even when i do get alot. So like any normal person i went online and typed in finances. MMFs, investments, REITs e.t.c
After binging videos on youtube i settled on the 50/30/20 rule. Where 50% is bills 30% is savings 20% is whatever tf i want as long as it doesn't exceed the set 20%.
When i said i dont have stuff. I mean my clothes are from 10 yrs ago that i don't even like anymore. I don't have nice shoes. I can't even set aside a few coins to get the cheapest hairstyle. By stuff i don't mean luxurious wants, i mean the most basic needs.
Because of this i've never truly felt that sense of independence. I have had this rule going on for a while now. I realised it gave me a sense confidence i have never experienced before. I am by no means a millionare, but i am proud i can manage the little i have.
I do slip. Spend more than i should, or use money i set aside for one thing to do something else.
But at least now i have a system in place that i go back to.
Apr 26, 2024