I used to see first dates as something embarrassing and a bit of a chore but now I look at them as meeting a new person and connecting. Even if it doesn’t go the way I want it to, I’ve at least gotten to know someone, had a laugh and went somewhere fun because of it. I actually enjoy first dates now bc it’s a new connection.
I went on a date this morning and it was sweet and fun and now I feel like I can do it again and it was so nice to meet a new person I’ve never known before. Incredible to know other people do exist.
(watch me unrec this when I go on a bad date)
When I was in my 20s and Single I’d go on a Tinder date every Friday, no exceptions. Didn’t matter how long we were talking on the app, or even if I wasn’t 100% sure they were the same vibe as me, as long as they were willing to meet as well. Very trial and error approach to dating and I came out of it with a lot of funny stories and got to know myself better.
ive been making overnight oats before work and for the first time I’m getting up, on time, and surviving the bad days at work bc I have the brain energy. Making breakfast is such a chore but fr this has saved me.
Ik most ppl say they’re snobs, which may be true, but I feel like they’re usually just resting bitch face introverts who only hang around ppl they know bc they are too awkward/scared to talk To strangers