i’ve lived in both the South and the North throughout my life and while i don’t use it frequently, i will say Southerners really went off with this one. it’s even meaner when said to a non-Southerner who doesn’t know what it means… THE backhanded compliment of all time
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I used to say this all the time but my Chicago friends bullied me out of it. I’m from socal it’s my culture
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