I just start talking to people like we’re already friends 🤷‍♀️ i often forget to exchange names because of this lol. You can never go wrong with a compliment. Also a fan of “tell me your life story” because I actually want to know and also a lot of people like talking about themselves.
Jul 20, 2024

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dont just start talking for the sake of talking, instead find something you actually think is interesting about that person, give them the compliment/question and go from there. be present, actually listen to what they’re saying instead of just being in your head thinking about what you’re gonna say next. you’ll be surprised how much people love to talk about themselves!
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Over sharing is the best way to get someone to talk, whether it’s about their personal experience or not. Pointing something out about them that you’ve noticed & complimenting it leaves a good impression which opens more opportunities to talk <3
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i think everybody hates small talk, but everybody is also very different from each other, I guess it’s a matter of being understanding with the person or people you’re talking to at the moment. But I do think that personal questions and talking about real life experiences is what gets conversations going, it’s also what makes you remember people and want to reconnect with them. when talking to somebody new there’s nothing better to a first impression than someone who engages and listens. We get what we give so might as well give as much as we can.
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