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i have short term, long term, concrete and abstract goals a plenty. some of them are serious and some are frivolous and fun:
make new friends (wherein hopefully both me and the other party benefit from and find abundance in said meeting), take risks that will hopefully somehow make my career more stable, teach myself to (finally) replace my bass strings, save money to travel, learn brazilian portuguese, paint 2 more oil paintings by the end of this year, taking up a fun lover/fling in the next three years, being more comfy and kind to myself, learn to make a good flan, moving out…
i will never stop growing and changing and setting goals for myself :)
make new friends (wherein hopefully both me and the other party benefit from and find abundance in said meeting), take risks that will hopefully somehow make my career more stable, teach myself to (finally) replace my bass strings, save money to travel, learn brazilian portuguese, paint 2 more oil paintings by the end of this year, taking up a fun lover/fling in the next three years, being more comfy and kind to myself, learn to make a good flan, moving out…
i will never stop growing and changing and setting goals for myself :)
Jul 23, 2024
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🔖• continue to make our home into ours
• declutter/reorganize. Get rid of all the stuff that’s just taking up space
• take the next level course in the specialization I’m professionally working towards
• get back into the swing of yoga/exercising. I did a backbend yesterday and it kind of hurt and I’ve just been realizing how stiff I am currently.
• asking for help more often with friends and family watching my kids so I can do things I love/go on dates with my husband more often
• keep being the best mom I can be!
Dec 6, 2024
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🔋Mainly i wanna work on myself and focus more on my well being (physically and mentally)
Physically :
- Staying active with cycling, walking at least three times a week - Quit smoking - Eat less sugar - Keep the 2L of water on a daily basis - Get my dose of sun on a daily basis - Less noise (visual and vocal)
Mentally :
- Be gentle on myself - Ready at least 12 books (A each month) - Journaling - To be less influenced by the internet (on buying new stuff) - If someone confuses me it only means to cut them off - Allow nice people to be nice - Smile more in pictures - Stop refusing to take pictures with my friends
Creativity :
- Learn to crochet - Collab with more people in order to expand my photography portfolio - Learn the basics of anatomy in order to draw people - Maybe learn Spanish (maybe because life can get busy tho)
Overall, respecting my body, get a peaceful mind set and who knows, maybe during the year i will have more ins.
Physically :
- Staying active with cycling, walking at least three times a week - Quit smoking - Eat less sugar - Keep the 2L of water on a daily basis - Get my dose of sun on a daily basis - Less noise (visual and vocal)
Mentally :
- Be gentle on myself - Ready at least 12 books (A each month) - Journaling - To be less influenced by the internet (on buying new stuff) - If someone confuses me it only means to cut them off - Allow nice people to be nice - Smile more in pictures - Stop refusing to take pictures with my friends
Creativity :
- Learn to crochet - Collab with more people in order to expand my photography portfolio - Learn the basics of anatomy in order to draw people - Maybe learn Spanish (maybe because life can get busy tho)
Overall, respecting my body, get a peaceful mind set and who knows, maybe during the year i will have more ins.
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📝Be published
Speak a non-Slav or Latin language
Skinny dip with someone I love
Play an instrument
Buy a really nice watch
Throw a surprise party for someone else
Keep fresh flowers in my home at all times
Get good at sourdough
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