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speaking slowly and deliberately
I love when people do this. although I tend to slip into an Orange County pace when I’m nervous or excited (thanks mom!!), I try to make the effort to slow down and be more careful with my words. It also lends itself to being a better listener!
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@nunjournal
Sep 30, 2024
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@taterhole
Are u shading me… 😭
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@nunjournal
taterhole LMAOOO NEVER! Please I sound like Cher Horowitz 😭
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@taterhole
nunjournal I was afraid this was borne out of frustration with my machine gun cadence!! 💔
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@nunjournal
taterhole never…I ❤️ bigbrained fast-talking women. But I also love and aspire to a sexy slow cadence. 2 wolves!!!!!
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Declarative sentences
I love to hear someone speak without sounding like they have a question mark at the end of every sentence (“right?”). You’re saying something. I’m listening. We’re all listening. Say what you want to say and don’t use your tone to apologize for saying it.
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@Shadowbeni
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SPEAKING CLUMSILY FROM THE HEART
I thought I was fumbling so I just said what I meant as plainly as I could manage and he was very moved by it. You're probably smoother than you think.
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@moth
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BASING WHAT YOU SAY OFF OF THE PREVIOUS STATEMENT
I‘ve been thinking about this a lot recently. I don’t know if this is just different speaking styles but I find it awkward when people don’t acknowledge what you say. like you say something and their response is on topic but kind of disconnected to what you said. it’s like they just want to say what they want to say and gloss over your statement as opposed to forming a response based off of what you just said. it makes me feel like they’re not actually listening to what I’m saying and it makes me feel awkward.
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