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listen I know lots of people have body image issues and the beauty discourse in our society is toxic or whatever but it is so boring/annoying to hear a person constantly go on about their appearance or how hot they think they are
Oct 4, 2024
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About your fitness regime or you dietary plans. It’s extremely boring , even worse than listening to someone telling you a dream.
Mar 9, 2024
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idk if this is unpopular or not but
i think we need to more genuinely care about people. so much of how we interact with or rather criticise people nowadays is excused by simple ‘caring’ about someone meanwhile it’s the rudest comment ever. if you really cared about someone in a genuine kind sort of way you wouldn’t say something to insult someone. basically what i’m referring to is the commenters on instagram reels or tiktok on random peoples posts doing like completely unrelated stuff then they’ll just out of nowhere say something like ‘this isn’t healthy’ or any comment related to their weight or how they look. and they’d excuse themselves in a way as if they were looking out for the person and warning them of health risks when they’re really just being horrible and wanting an excuse that makes them seem nice and caring.
unprovoked unkind comments on someone’s looks or weight will never be ’caring’, you don’t know this person!!! i think to be caring you need to consider someone’s feelings and i don’t mean acknowledging that someone might get upset about a comment you make, but acknowledging and caring that what you say might upset them so not saying it
1. because it’s unkind
2. unneeded
3. not considerate or empathetic.
Mar 4, 2025
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If someone wants to sleep all day because their week has been superbly exhausting, why judge them? If someone wants to eat things you wouldn’t put in your body, why judge them? A lot of times we’re so worried about others habits when we have to reflect and think why? It costs $0 to judge nobody & mind your business.
Jan 25, 2024
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Sometimes you can just exist. you don’t (hopefully) need 50 hustles. You don’t need to be a writer and musician and artist and podcaster and influencer and girlboss or whatever. you don’t even need to signal how cool or smart or attractive you are. I know it’s hard cause I think our society incentives (forces?) people to be “on” all the time, but it’s probably better for your own sake to just exist for yourself and your love ones and to adjust your expectations of what a successful or meaningful life is.
Sorry for being pedantic, just know a lot of friends and family my age or younger that seem to be struggling right now in all sorts of ways. Just know, regardless of what anyone says or even what you say or do, that you guys have inherent dignity and you are worth something
Oct 9, 2024
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Eat yogurt, kimchi/sauerkraut, miso, kefir, kombucha, pickles, certain soft cheeses cause they’re good for you
I never had a problem shitting I just like funky foods and pretending my gut is a nightclub where all the bacteria are dancing and having a good time like it’s osmosis jones or something
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