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It seems like yâall addressed the issue and got through it, so unless you feel like thereâs more to talk about just try to have some fun together. If it was me, I would appreciate if you were to acknowledge that it was awkward but want to move on, and maybe propose something enjoyable to do together. Fun and laughter always helps shift the energy đ
Oct 13, 2024
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ik ppl hate hearing this, but just be straight up. maybe break the ice by sending a meme about ur situation to make it light. and then be like, hey i like the back and forth but i would actually want to hang out and date/go out.
and then at the end you can send another funny meme to make the interaction less awkward. like a bye lol type thing
Feb 11, 2024
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The âweâre not really strangersâ cards or some similar ice breaker question style situation is a great thing to fall back on if youâre feeling worried about running out of ideas/topics! Besides that I will think of an activity to do (like âwe both cook dinnerâ or âwe both chat while cleaningâ or âstitch and bitchâ) helps ease some of the intensity. I even have a friend to whom I send a âcheckinâ Google doc and then we FaceTime to debrief the updates on it. Other people we go full yap and others still we just coexist.
Itâs all nice because the point is being in one anotherâs presence. Theres no rules which is fun but if thatâs whatâs making you stressed you can always just tell the other person that and maybe they have something in mind!
Mar 18, 2025
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I totally get the temptation to ask insightful and thought-provoking questions but remember sometimes you need to keep it simple. If it's a loud party with lots of people, not everyone is going to want to have a super deep conversation with someone they just met. Small talk is annoying and tedious but sometimes it's a much-needed entry point. Meet some cool people, get their contact info, and then message them later with some big questions.
Jul 20, 2024
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For some reason this brings me into my parasympathetic nervous system
Mar 28, 2025
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Humans have always danced. It is part of who we are, yet we have been conditioned to be self conscious, to think that we do not move our bodies good enough. Dancing is beyond judgement. Dancing is not a skill, it is our soul moving through our bodies, expressed in movement. Dancing is healing. Dancing is bodily autonomy. Dancing is FUN! Any feeling you are feeling can be moved through with dance yet even alone, you fear looking foolish. Kill the judge in your mind, shut the fuck up, and MOVE đ
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OH BROTHER THIS GUY actually needs a lot of empathy and understanding
Apr 2, 2025