though this isn't 100% always going to be the right advice, I think we are generally best served if we make clear decisions and then accept the consequences, rather than wallowing in regret and second-guessing.
Now, since this is in response to an ask—wherein you wondered how to balance your need to relieve yourself with your desire to not skip out on a movie—I do want to express sincere hope that you are no longer at the movie theater wrestling with this question (it's been over 24 hours) and that you were able to find the relief you needed. Hopefully it wasn't a shitty movie!
Oct 16, 2024
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It’s much better than making the simple but destructive- possibly irreparable - one.
Feb 21, 2024
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i big big big hate making decisions and stress that whatever i pick will be the wrong choice, but i have found that the more i decide internally to just commit to whichever choice, i try to let go and let the universe take it from there. until time travel is invented, no one can go back in time and change their decisions so there is no point in considering what another option would have been like. it's just an exercise in misery that is best avoided. do what feels good and don't look back.
Oct 22, 2024
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helps me relax when making big and small decisions— everything in life leads to the next thing, no such thing as a wrong decision, etc.
Mar 5, 2024
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this is worthy of celebration: the lack of video—autoplay video, noisy inane video, panicky video, algorithmic, dumb video, rabbit hole video, any video—on pi.fyi is a good thing
Oct 5, 2024
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this is going to hurt — A LOT — but it's getting to the point where there's no other option
Mar 11, 2025