Jaw pain possibly caused by intensely frowning and clenching at all my problems was ruining my life a tiny bit. Massaging the temple above the painful side of my jaw daily and convincing myself to smile and release the tension in my eyebrows has helped. Pro is that when you are consistently rubbing your temple in public you look like you’re solving a tricky thermodynamics equation or some equally thoughtful activity. If this is you, it also helps to sleep on your back so your teeth can‘t grind as easily.
Upper East Side. He shouted “I thought it was a Tuesday” on a Wednesday into a flip phone in the early 2000s. He sounded just like he does in the movies 💕
This is annoying advice but love has always come to me when I’m not looking for it. When I get very active in things I’m passionate about (usually leftie organizing but also art and history stuff and also just spending time with friends a la the friends of friends rec) I meet new people and find interesting, aligned folks.
I got my current role by rage applying and it’s weirdly great but still whenever I get mad at it, I either update my resume (I’m only able to boast about my work when I’m mad at my job!) or randomly apply to roles - it gives you a task to focus on and it could end up changing your life for the better.